Late Pregnancy Class

Even though I am only 21 (almost 22) weeks along, it was suggested to us by our doctor that we take the late pregnancy class at Morse Hospital where we will deliver. She wanted to ensure that we take the class before I go on bed rest. Last night was our class, and we were surrounded by other pregnant couples, most due in the next 4-6 weeks, all with singleton pregnancies. So, Adrian and I were definitely out of place with our situation, but we still learned a lot.

We learned where and how to check in on our delivery day. We were given a list of things to bring along with us so that we are comfortable, and we were given the visitation 'rules.' Since this class was not for multiple pregnancies, it did not include a detailed tour of the NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit), however, our teacher was extremely sympathetic to our situation and pulled some strings for us. We were able to go and talk to the charge nurse of the NICU after the general tour and have several of our questions answered.

The whole experience was extremely overwhelming and pretty emotional. Our hearts broke over and over as we attempted to wrap our brains around what our experience is going to be like. While talking with the nurse at the NICU, we had the opportunity to see a baby in a warming bed who was 33 weeks gestationally. He was so little and helpless, it brought tears to my eyes. The NICU was buzzing with tons of doctors and nurses, even at 8 pm, so I know our boys will be well taken care of. We will probably be sent home before our boys can come with us, so we plan to spend a lot of time at the NICU with our sons. Unfortunately, we can not stay the night with them after we are discharged.

Nothing can prepare us for the unknown. We know that we must take life one day at a time. It was nice to have some questions answered, but ultimately, we know that the Lord is in control of our lives. It is with trust, faith and prayer that we will get through this time of happiness and pain. The roller coaster of emotions that Adrian and I are experiencing on a daily basis is overwhelming. We are grateful for all of our friends and family who are supporting us through prayer, encouragement and distraction. Thank you to you all!!