Sunday, December 28, 2008
First Christmas
Sadly, the boys are coming down with their first cold. Despite our attempts to keep them healthy, they are very stuffy right now. It is so hard to hear them sniffle, especially when they are trying to sleep. Luckily, no one has a fever and they are both still eating well. We are taking them to see Dr. Don tomorrow, just to get checked out and for peace of mind. I wonder how much they weigh now?? They are growing WAY too fast!!
We are looking forward to a quiet New Year's Eve, just the four of us hanging out. Who knows if we will even make it to see the ball drop, it may be time for us to sleep, feed or change diapers!! We would not trade this in for anything! Just in case we don't blog before New Year's, we wish everyone blessings for 2009!!
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Time Flies!!!!

Diego likes to snuggle with his brother/Diego chilling in his boppy

Mateo hanging in his boppy/Mateo and Diego as Santa

Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Five weeks!
Monday, November 24, 2008
Three Weeks Old!

First day home from the hospital!/ Mateo, chillin in his swing


Diego / Tio and the boys!




Diego on the left, Mateo on the right
Wow!! We have survived our first week home with the boys, and they are already 3 weeks old! It is hard to believe how much they are changing and growing! We are looking forward to Wednesday to see how much they weigh now.
Monday, November 17, 2008
Sleep Deprivation
The boys are eating well and hopefully gaining weight...we will find out tomorrow at their first doctor's appointment. They are eating about 2 oz. every 3 hours. I am amazed at how many diapers we are going through and how much laundry these two guys create! Mateo likes to pee through to his outfits, and gets more wardrobe changes than Usher at a concert!
David came home today, we are still deciding whether or not to have anything for him. All we can ask now is for prayer for our entire family. We are taking it one day at a time, learning, growing and loving it!
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Coming home!!
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
One Week Old
Saturday, November 8, 2008
Weekend Update








Thursday, November 6, 2008
Our baby boys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mateo Armando 4 lbs 9 oz, 10:03 p.m.
OK, here are some pics, I know you all are waiting---btw, they are SOOOOOOO cute! I am truly biased :) We will post more soon!! Babies are in the NICU doing well, mommy and daddy are at home resting and eagerly awaiting our time with then tomorrow!!
Thursday, October 23, 2008
In the Hospital
Thank you everyone for your blessings!
Adrian & Vanessa
Sunday, October 12, 2008
31 Weeks...and counting!
So, I have spent three full weeks on bedrest now, and I have developed some unusual preferences. The following is a list of things that I can not live with out right now:
- Pillows-I'm talking tons of pillows, surrounding my whole body (Adrian still gets one, too!)
- Straws-Have you ever tried to drink anything while lying down??
- Tums-heartburn...crazy heartburn
- Peppermint Extra Gum-There is just something so good about it!! I can't really explain.
- Cran-Grape Juice-Again, can't really explain how good it tastes!
- Netflix-Why didn't I ever do this before...probably because I wasn't spending all day on the couch or in bed!!
- DVR-It's amazing how many shows I can tape and watch the next day...even reruns!!
- Wireless Internet/Laptop-Oh, I would be so bored if I couldn't check my email and update my netflix account from the couch...online dominoes are fun too!!
Of course, the support from Adrian, my mom, sisters, family and friends have been amazing. Adrian continues to do his best to make sure the house is running properly. My sisters and mom make sure we are fed and stocked with what ever we need. My nieces and nephews provide me with much needed distraction and company. My friends have also come to visit, or call regularly and assure me that life outside this house is still happening, much to my surprise!! I know that there are a lot of people looking forward to these babies...we can hardly wait!!
I tried to add a voting poll to the blog, it should be working soon...remember to vote for when you think the boys will be here. This will likely be the most important vote you cast all year, so let your voice be heard!!!!
Sunday, October 5, 2008
Daddy Shower Surpise!
This past week my previous boss and still friends Larry and Diane asked me to come to a "sales" meeting to discuss a project. I accepted with alot of questions because I had already met with him just a couple of days before. I showed up for my appointment right at 3pm and he met me at the door. We proceeded to walk into the Board Room and all of my co-workers were sitting there with balloons, decorations, presents, and a Chocolate Chip Ice Cream Cake (My Favorite). Thank you to Diane, Pam, Amanda, Larry, Tyler, Dave, Melinda, Rick, and Patti ( I am pretty sure I put everyone in). I had an opportunity to sit there with them for close to one hour catching up on everything and I really enjoyed myself. They are a great group of people at GBH and I am very appreciative of their constant support and for throwing this great party. I really enjoyed the Ice Cream cake and I must have a reputation of eating large amounts as they served me a large piece of cake. This act of kindness and generosity is a reminder to me of how blessed our family is to have friends and family like the individuals at GBH. Despite the current economy the Lord has always provided for us in so many different ways, some in planned events and others that come in surprises.
Also, our teacher friends from Coyote Ridge visited us the following day with a babies scrap book for all of the boys. They had obviously spent hours putting it together and the scrap books were incredible. Thank you to Julie, Denise, Jen, Lisa, Brenna, Mona, Lindsay, Lisa F. and Kelsey and anyone else who helped in putting this together for our boys.
I don't know how we would have made it to this point with out all of our family and friends. We look forward for everyone to come over to see our son's once they are home. Everyone has been a blessing on our lives and we hope to return the blessings. Thank you Lord for giving us our daily bread!
Adrian and Vanessa
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Bed Rest!
So...these pics are from last Saturday, at Andrea and Caleb's engagement party. It was so fun, we really loved hanging out and meeting Caleb's family. They are all so nice! We can't wait for the wedding!! Judging by the amount of fun we had last weekend, the wedding will be a night to remember!!
Monday I felt off all day, just kind of yucky. I slept most of the day and woke up in the later part of the afternoon. Around 4:00 I noticed some contractions, so I monitored them for a while. When they were about 15 minutes apart I called Kaiser and they had me go into Labor and Delivery. I was admitted, and by the time I was put on the monitor, my contractions were about 2 minutes apart. My cervix had barely started to dilate, they called it a fingertip...basically less than one, which is good news. They needed to stop the contractions so I got a shot of terbutaline and was told I was going to stay the night. A while after the shot I was given Nifedipine, a blood pressure medication that relaxes smooth muscles, like the uterus, which helped to make the contractions more spread out.
Before being sent home Tuesday morning, I was given a steroid shot, which stimulates lung development in the babies. I went back today for my last installment of steroids, and was checked my Dr. Mentakis, the other doctor in the high risk clinic. My cervix is now 80% thinned out, or effaced, but still no change in dilation. I am taking Nifedipine every 4 hours, and am tracking my contractions. If I have 6 in an hour, back to Morse we go. Until then, bedrest!
With proper care, there is a good chance that everything will progress as normal for a triplet pregnancy. However, I ask that you please continue to pray for our boys...they need to keep cooking just a few more weeks!! Thank you!!
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
27 weeks!
Mateo and Diego are measuring at between 29 and 30 weeks, and David is right on track at 27 weeks. This is good news, all 3 boys are thriving and growing and the bigger the better!! Diego was his active self as usual, getting into everyone else's frame. Mateo was even a little squirmy. David was mellow, but his heartbeat remains strong. His chest cavity is full of fluid, which has hindered his lung development, poor little guy!!
Dr. Hendershot would like to see us make it to 34 weeks...that is only 7 weeks away!!!!!!!!! Wow, are we ready?? Ready or not, we are soon going to be parents. One year ago, I never would have imagined being at this place. The Lord has blessed us so much, I remain in awe! Hopefully our house will be back in order by the time they come. Please pray for these boys to keep cooking as long as possible. Although 7 weeks seems like it is around the corner, our sons may try to come sooner. The longer they stay inside, the shorter time in the NICU, the sooner they get to come home and complete our family! I will do my part, taking it easy and relaxing. Adrian has been awesome, taking care of all the house chores, grocery shopping, cooking...I could get used to this!!
We will post a picture sometime this week. I am getting really big!!
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
A flood, a shower and contractions
We immediately began sopping up water, I called Sears right away to try to get someone back to help us. In the meantime, the door opened up 2 more times, expelling more water each time. VERY long story short, the water seeped down stairs, through the sheet rock, into the garage, basically all over the place. Sears had me on the phone for 5 hours, transferring me constantly to someone new, each time requiring me to retell our story. I was definitely trying to remain calm, but the evident water damage in the home was making me a little nervous!!
Sears eventually told us not to touch anything, and that someone would call us within 24 business hours(translation: 3 days.) Two days later, with the upstairs carpet still soaked, Sears had not contacted us, but the owners of the house (yes, we we are renting this beautiful home) decided to take action. They had a drying company come in to get rid of the water problem. They came in late Friday evening and got to work. They tore out baseboards, ripped up carpet, drilled holes in the ceiling and left 15-20 industrial size drying machines to run 24 hours until Monday. The noise was virtually unbearable, like standing on an airstrip all day long. Now all the machines are gone, but we are waiting on Sears insurance to come and look at the reconstruction needed. We could be waiting for a long time :) The total damages could reach up into the $20,000 range!!
Saturday evening my sisters and mom threw us a shower at Ericka's house. It was so great. I love being able to share these special moments with friends and family. Thank you to all those who were able to come. Adrian and I can feel the Lord continually bless us through our friends and families. It is truly amazing. Special thanks to my sisters and mom: the food was delicious and the party was fantastic!!! I couldn't have asked for anything better.
Sunday night we started having contractions. We went to Kaiser and were monitored for about 3 and a half hours. The contractions were irregular, and apparently, normal with triplet pregnancies. The boys were very active, and hard to monitor because of the activity. The nurses had trouble tracking their heartbeats because the little stinkers kept moving. The nurse told us that this would most likely not be our last trip to Labor and Delivery. Since Sunday, I continue to have minor contractions, but they are not painful. I am just trying to take it easy and rest, luckily I am out of work. We see our doctor again on the 16th, next Tuesday. We can't wait to see these active boys again!
Sunday, August 31, 2008
We apologize that we have not blogged in a while, we have been real busy with our most recent move. We plan to get back on track with our weekly updates.
We would like to first of all praise the Lord for the generosity of all of our family and friends. I don't have my Bible with me but I do know that the Lord loves all people more than the lillies of the field and the crows of the sky so He tells us not to worry about tommorrow as He will always provide for us in the time of our need. Words are not enough to thank every one out there that has generously given their time, weekends, weekdays, baby gifts, gift cards, labor, moving trucks, washers/dryers, and love to our family. We are so grateful for all of you and it is incredible that our babies' room is full of clothes, swings, bibs, rocking chairs, diapers, and much more. Thank you to all of you for being a blessing to our family and we pray that the Lord be with you. The servitude that we have seen out of all of our family and friends is truly a display of our Savior as He was the perfect servant. We pray that we may be able to serve you as you have served us. Thank you!
Furthermore, I would like to thank Vanessa for everything she does. Since the day we learned that Vanessa was pregnant she has done everything by the book in terms of taking the proper nutrients and vitamins recommended for a triplet pregnancy. I know that is why the doctor is amazed that the pregnancy is being carried so well and she allowed Vanessa to keep working. Speaking of work, as a husband it hurts me to see my wife work as she comes home with swolen feet, legs, carpel tunnel, and much more. She is extremely exhausted and I really don't know how she does it. She has pulled up her boot straps and doing amazing things for our family. Being newly self-employed does not always have immediate results and I just pray that I may be able to provide for our family. I tell Vanessa all the time, but I would like to reiterate how wonderful and beautiful she is and I will never forget what she has done for our family. She is going to be a wonderful mother and a delight to watch in action. The Lord has continued to teach me to trust in Him and he continues to teach me how to have Faith and be dependent on Him. I pray every day to help me live the life of Jesus and through Vanessa and all of our family/friends I have seen the most amazing acts of service and love. I hope to give back and multiply the blessings given to our family to the rest of you and others we don't know.
Next is an update on Mateo, Diego, and David. All of the boys as of last week weighed about 1.07 Lbs! That is larger than most triplet pregnancy averages. They are all very active including David and it is amazing to feel them move around. David, still has minimal liquids in his birth sac but his bladder has emptied but unfortunately there is still no opening for the liquid to get out and stop putting pressure on his chest cavity. We pray every night for all the boys and for David's healing, but we are preparing ourselves in the event David does not make it pass birth. I pray that the Lord if He chooses to take David, that he gives us a few minutes, hours, and hopefully days to spend with him. I give praise for any time we get to spend with David. I know through David the Lord will allow us to continue to spread the Good News of the Lord, although we are very troubled by his condition we praise the Lord for choosing us for this challenge. In the story of Job, the Lord allowed for many bad things to happen to him because he knew that Job would never turn from the Lord or denounce His Name. We pray for the same strenght that Job had, that although we may lose our son that we will never denounce the Name of the Lord. Just like He gave His only Son for our salvation, there is no greater love than the one demostrated through the crucifixion of Jesus. We accept the cup the Lord has given our family.
Finally, we would like to thank the Haskin's family for opening their home up to us. Although, we are excited about our new home we will miss our time with the Haskins. I really enjoyed seeing them in the morning and hearing them come back to school. My wife has turned my nephew into a Nintendo junkie and I turned my brother - in - law into a Fox News, Rush Limbaugh, and Laura Ingraham fanatic. We enjoyed daily golf car rides through the hills of Lincoln driving through the "Streets of Dreams" and driving on private golf courses, and not being able to make it up the hill with over 4oo Lbs on an electric golf cart. The golf car rides were very relaxing and we were able to covet people's back yards and homes for a couple of minutes. Speaking of Nintendo, as I am writing this blog my nephew just came upstairs to turn it on and start playing. I have worked out of their home for the past two months on a round desk upstairs and will miss everything except for the lack of cell phone reception. My niece is wonderful and just laugh at how cute and bossy she is. Thank you to Monica for all of the breakfasts, lunches, and dinners. We are very grateful to them and all of our family who provides blessings for us.
In closing, we have another appointment on Thursday and we are excited to see the kiddos. It will be here sooner than later as we are two months and counting. Thank you again to everyone and blessings to all of you.
Adrian and Vanessa
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
Back to School
Last Friday, my grade level team, threw me a lovely shower. It was at Julie's house, and it was so much fun. The food was great, the game was awesome, and the company was perfect. I feel truly blessed to be a part of such a great staff at Coyote Ridge. I couldn't have asked for a better shower. Thanks to everyone who participated, but a special thanks to Julie, Jen, Denise, Kelsey, Brenna, Mona and Lisa who put the whole party together. When I do go out on bed rest, I am going to really miss you guys!!!
This weekend is our move. We get our keys on Saturday morning, and our crew is ready and waiting. It will be weird not to live with Monica and her family, it seems so natural now! Adrian and I will miss all of them so much...luckily the are just up the hill so we can come visit as often as we want!!
Next appointment is September 4. Looking forward to seeing our boys again soon. Oh, we are starting to feel a lot of movement lately...it is so neat!!
Friday, August 8, 2008
Late Pregnancy Class
We learned where and how to check in on our delivery day. We were given a list of things to bring along with us so that we are comfortable, and we were given the visitation 'rules.' Since this class was not for multiple pregnancies, it did not include a detailed tour of the NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit), however, our teacher was extremely sympathetic to our situation and pulled some strings for us. We were able to go and talk to the charge nurse of the NICU after the general tour and have several of our questions answered.
The whole experience was extremely overwhelming and pretty emotional. Our hearts broke over and over as we attempted to wrap our brains around what our experience is going to be like. While talking with the nurse at the NICU, we had the opportunity to see a baby in a warming bed who was 33 weeks gestationally. He was so little and helpless, it brought tears to my eyes. The NICU was buzzing with tons of doctors and nurses, even at 8 pm, so I know our boys will be well taken care of. We will probably be sent home before our boys can come with us, so we plan to spend a lot of time at the NICU with our sons. Unfortunately, we can not stay the night with them after we are discharged.
Nothing can prepare us for the unknown. We know that we must take life one day at a time. It was nice to have some questions answered, but ultimately, we know that the Lord is in control of our lives. It is with trust, faith and prayer that we will get through this time of happiness and pain. The roller coaster of emotions that Adrian and I are experiencing on a daily basis is overwhelming. We are grateful for all of our friends and family who are supporting us through prayer, encouragement and distraction. Thank you to you all!!
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Friends, Family and Fun!








On Saturday, Adrian's parents threw us a beautiful baby shower. The weather was perfect, the food was delicious, and it was great to spend time with old friends and family! Adrian and I feel tremendously blessed to have so many people who already love our kids. It was clear to us what a blessing these babies are going to be for so many people. Every day that passes makes us more anxious to meet our sons, and now we have so many cute things to look at to pass the time. Thank you to everyone for the gifts, we are overwhelmed at the amount of support we are receiving!














